I have been intrigued all my life by the confusion we live in with regard to love, intimacy and sexuality. From my role as a body-oriented sexologist & counselor, I therefore have a mission: to remove the veils in these areas. What becomes visible is a deep experience and understanding about love and sexuality as a tool for healing and transformation.
I inspire by creating consciousness on the one hand by writing about love and sexuality and on the other hand by (teaching you) to remind the body with a physical touch to the original state, which is love. I work with both couples and individuals. On this website I share what inspires me in my field and how you can be part of it.
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Traditionally it is women who initiate men on the path of intimacy and sacred sexuality. Yet I see that as a woman we often expect our beloved (husband) to teach us this art. This often leads to disappointment; to total weakening in our liveliness and sometimes even to total abstinence from intimacy. The result of this is (I like to charge): a society with emotional women (femininity) and absent men (masculinity). Somehow we both know deep down that things can be done differently, but how?
As an extra supplement to a stay in the Love Bubble I also give it Massage Ritual to loved ones. In this ritual I touch you both, first separately in close proximity and then together. The intention of my touch is to turn on the flow of love in your two bodies and then to connect these flows with each other. This brings you beyond the everyday, to the essence of your connection. Depending on your own intention, the emphasis is more on relaxation, deepening or initiation (see explanation Massage Ritual individually).
As an extra floor on the stay at the Love Bubble I also give one Love retreat to loved ones. Your question is central to this retreat; the theme on which you wish to be inspired. You will jointly explain this theme in a telephone intake. First of all I look to see if I think I can inspire you and if so, then come with a no-obligation proposal and possibly homework until the retreat. In the retreat itself, the touch is an important tool for me. By making contact with your bodies, the deeper stratification of the theme that you want to explore unfolds. This creates healing and transformation.
How long has it been since you were with your loved one for 21 hours, without being disturbed by anything or anyone? The Original Love Bubble arose from my own need to lock me up once a month with my loved one. Because I experience how important it is to find the peace and space in my relationship to really be together, we started sharing our Love Bubble (hence the name Original) and soon followed several Love Bubbles at LandGoed in Lochem ( in 2022 we expect to have 7 Love Bubbles at LandGoed). In the meantime the Love Bubbles have been developed into an experience where you lock up your 21 hours with your loved one in very pleasant circumstances (including private wellness facilities), where you only have to take your toothbrush with you, where you are completely cared for without seeing anyone or hear, where love will flow in your connection (again), where you can be inspired by Love Rituals and where above all you celebrate the essence of your love.
If you want to hear more about the Love Bubbles, view part 1 and part 2 of the interview with me and relationship therapist Marieke Proper or visit the website.